Dude looks like an imbecile and Lolita a bitch. Zero innocence and romanticism. That's why one should always read the original novel first to avoid lousy film adaption.
Having your heart broken is a tremendous way to learn about the world. Wondering if u r happy is a great shortcut to being depressed. Whatever u think ur life is going2b like, just know it's not going2b anything like that.